Loving you from afar…

Relationships between your family, friends, and lovers, all represent different types of love, but none the less, it’s still Love, and experiencing Love can be beautiful as it is heartbreaking.

Sometimes, people just have a perception of life that doesn’t align with yours, and that in itself can cause disappointment and weigh your spirit down.

In order for my spirit to grow and be at peace, letting go of toxic relationships is a must, whether it is friendship, family, romantic, and even professional.

The hardest part of ending a toxic relationship is grieving the loss of their company.

But you must be honest with yourself and ask yourself, Am I happy? Do I deserve to be treated this way?

If the answer is No, then you owe it to yourself to be happy.

Sometimes, people are not intentionally being “toxic”, I mean you, yourself, can be a toxic person, it doesn’t make you a bad person, it just means that you need to focus on healing your trauma. Your trauma, is meant to be healed, otherwise, it will consume you, take over your life, and your being.

It will affect your attitude, and those in your circle.

It’s also important to know that people are set in their ways, many have generational trauma, that requires spiritual work in order for healing to occur, however, its ultimately their choice if they decide to do the work or not, but it is not an obligation for you to stay and deal with their shit.

Life is not meant to be fair, it’s meant to break us down, and everyone has their own personal life journey that they must walk, alone.

What consoles me is knowing that although, I chose to end these toxic relationships,

I still think of them, miss them and will always love them, but I chose to love them from afar.